Carl Stokes Counselling MBACP

Trauma, Grief and Loss

Traumatic life experiences can have a lasting effect on our ability to live a fulfilling life, as can grief and loss.

Adverse childhood experiences, such as emotional abuse, neglect or sexual abuse, or a traumatic event or events, can leave a person feeling depressed, anxious, angry, suffering low self-esteem. A person that has experienced trauma may have difficulty with personal relationships and their work. Feelings of anger, guilt and shame are common, as is self-destructive behaviour and self-medication.

Talking about these traumas at your own pace can help you move towards excepting and moving forward in your life.

Loss is one of the most difficult experiences life deals us. The loss of a loved one or even a job or a pet can be traumatic. The subsequent grief we feel can be very hard to deal with and feel overwhelming. Loss can bring up many emotions from sadness to anger, disbelief, denial and self blame, by working through these feelings it is possible to move in to a position of acceptance and to live again. Working with dreams and images can be really insightful when working with such issues.

Trauma issues include:

  • Self-harming behaviour
  • Anxiety
  • Anger
  • Shame and guilt
  • Nightmares
  • Panic attacks
  • Low self-esteem
  • Flashbacks
  • Relationships
  • Sexual dysfunction
  • Grief and loss
  • Abusive relationships
  • PTSD
Has your life been negatively affected by trauma, grief and/or loss?  I can help - please get in touch.